Relationship and Love from Energy Exchange Perspective NEW by Natasha M
Everything is energy, even your thoughts and I am not discovering America by saying it. Let’s talk about relationship and love from an energy point of view.
Very often we get trapped in the same pattern over and over again: be it relationship with our kids, with friends or with colleagues at work. We give out too much not giving the other people the opportunity to do the same, to shine, to give and share and to experience joy from it. When you give - you experience love and happiness. It is an art – some of us are not real masters of it. We all do the same mistakes – we like to feel better and to be better. It usually comes from our sense of insecurity and inability to acknowledge the truth of who we are. We are already perfect and beautiful – there is no necessity to prove it once again by giving. Even if we were told many many times by the outside observers: hold on, let the other people call you, follow you, write to you, give to you and open up with you, you are depriving them from a pleasure of giving too. Receiving is an art too, and some of us have to learn it one way or another. From the other side when you reject the giving hand the Universe closes the other doors for you. We have to learn to say “thank you” and accept what comes our way without feeling obliged to give back – just with gratitude and grace. And lots of us feel obliged to give something back when we receive. Let’s talk about it in more details.
We divided all the people (of those on the receiving end but it relates to giving as well) into three categories:
1. those who do not feel that they are obliged to give something back to the giver. They feel gratitude but they do not get attached with the “giving back” part. It is not a debt and credit world for them. They do not feel bad about receiving – they feel simply nothing – it comes and it goes. The Universe has got everything in abundance and the place is amazing in richness and prosperity. There is simply no limit on what you can get and what you can give back – this is the philosophy of such kind of people. They do not feel that they owe anything to the giver nor that they receive more that they give etc. – the balance of “counting” is absent in their soul. In these people - there is usually a channel going both ways – with no obligations. These people usually do not get attached with giving out too – the flow of energy is smooth and effortless. It is a pleasure to be with such souls. You feel like you met them a long time ago as you and they are just life mates. We meet many of them on our journey. But most of us, we all have a long way to go and reach this destination of being such energy balanced humans. Receiving as well as giving is a hard work.
2. there is a second category. They are the ones that get very angry when they are given something. They simply are terrified they would be obliged to give something back, as a matter of fact they usually don’t. We experienced it with lots of people. You feel the energy of either ignorance, separation or a well-built brick wall. They are the people that will never give back anything they have: including their creativity, their time, their talent and themselves. They are the owners of nothingness but we can not judge as we all have this energy inside of us to some extend or the other. There is simply a channel going one way but it is cut off on the spot - on the way back. There is a fear coming from these people that they do not have enough and they will never have enough. A fear of losing something that is even not theirs. Because on the grand scale – we are everything – you do not own anything as you are all there is.
3. there is a third category: the people that feel that they have to pay something back to you straight away. My mom would get bunches, buckets of flowers as she worked as a teacher at school and 90% of school flowers – all the gifts from the students - would go to her as she was loved dearly - she was popular indeed. We would not have a room to place the flowers in the house, not enough vases at home: even the sink and the bath tab were both full of floating flowers. The smell would give you a headache if you sleep with certain flowers next to your bed and all that jazz… My mom has chosen to give these flowers to our neighbors – the girl next door would be very happy about it – she would get such treats from us 5-6 times a year. She would feel very uncomfortable if she did not pay off straight away with cakes or biscuits – the food should have gone go back to us the same day, in one hour actually… You could feel her desperation to pay off, the air was full of it. It would make my mom very upset as she did not expect anything in return. My mom would say: “why she is rushing to pay her debts off – she does not have to…” The girl simply could not live with the false feeling that she owes something to someone. That was the story. We can not judge as again we all have part of this energy too.
Nevertheless let’s go back to our main story: energy, relationship and love.
Some of us like giving, it seems that we do not expect anything in return but in reality we do. A kind word, an advice, a smile, a simple ‘thank you’, warmth and care is the best payment to our giving: be it an important life advice or a chocolate pudding. Listening to someone is also - energy giving. Good listeners are very dear in this world. We all do expect the return of energy in some way, for our giving. It looks like if you give something out you earn a credit with this person. Next time you need something you know that you will be ok going and asking him/her something you need: be it help work-wise or a cup of tea Why? - because you earned a credit with this person. You can use it. If you do not get anything in return your one way channel might get closed forever…
What is the best way of giving and receiving and what you need to learn from it? We learnt to give out a lot – we know in this way or the other 20-30 times more will come back our way as the Universe is rich in its wealth and abundance. When you give - open a channel and detach yourself from that energy – you will notice the channel will open the other way in a couple of days. But we give not because of that. We give because we like it, we like the feeling itself, the feeling of giving. We like seeing the others happy eyes and we like seeing ourselves in a good light. The latter is more important than anything else.
More to that: we women are more on the giving side than men. We love giving. For us to give food to man is like offering love to him as food (especially the one that we arrange or cook ourselves) becomes part of us, giving. We give it away and we get pleasure out of it: observing the man we like enjoying it – meaning he will like to make love to us too. You try something prepared by a woman – consider yourself trapped – she puts such a loving energy into her cooking especially as she thinks about the person she loves when she cooks – you will fall in love with this part of her she gives away and this is one step forward… for her. You remember: the way to man’s heart lies through his stomach.
You refuse her food once and you will never be offered anything anymore. She gets offended by your refuse. This works in any culture where women are warm and giving. Russian culture is the same. The present that gets ignored or refused especially food (or worse – if it gets returned) can easily be interpreted as an expression of rudeness and ungratefulness. If he gets it and he does not like it we do not care – he can through it away but it should never come back to the givers. One should remember – it is not the food that she offers you – it is her love on subconscious level and she might not even realize it herself until she becomes spiritually aware of her actions but even at that point she will give out because she feels love and she likes it and she wants to share her love in any form.
Back to the subject.
Giving is the same as receiving. We should all learn to give out wisely and the balance is more important as the exchange of energy should be in everything we do.
If you give too much the person is so overwhelmed with you and your energy, he/she might get drawn in this energy and there will be no result of balanced energy exchange. He/she simply does not have a break – a time for giving, he/she is out of breath. We should give the other person an opportunity to share and to let the love go both ways, to flow and to flourish ... But…
What about the beginning of the process – who should start first, who should break the ice? There are simply no rules to start the game. There is nothing there yet – the page is blank… Start first from scratch! Give out and let it go… Your thought, your word, your action and your simple gift might reach the right destination, the seed might fall into a rich soil and the process will start because energy moving is life and love. And this is all there is.
We should always remember in both giving and receiving: there is no special formula and what suits one does not suit the other. We all do what we like and we all receive the experiences that we chose to.
Giving and receiving is the same for me as I do not see the other person as separate from me. I show what I like to experience by an example. The other person is ‘me’ but in a different life time, different frame, different line of soul existence so to speak . When you give – feel that you are rich, when you receive – feel gratefulness. At the end you are giving to yourself and receiving yourself. Learn to be in good relationship with yourself and as they are the best emotions that you can feel both ways. And one more thought: you are everything – you own everything here and you own nothing in this Universe. Everything and nothing belongs to you – as we are all just on holiday here – temporarily, like light travelers, sparkles of love. You should make sure you don’t have any regrets and do never judge your life – whatever you do and whatever you do not do…
At the end – there is nothing left when you move to another life dimension, when you fall to another world for new experiences – just take the best out of here with you – your most treasured and cherished feelings as there is nothing else to take with you… The rest of it is trash and dust…
...and let's learn together how to give and how to receive... :)
Today I wanted to share a couple of articles from our good old friend Stue - Stuard Wilde for you today again... Enjoy as we will talk about Love and Fear again!
Fear is a Pornography We don’t Need
We suffer under a pornography of fear, it’s a state sponsored religion, a “blackwash” driven by the agenda oriented bent media that seeks to manipulate people’s ideas and feelings. Fear is how they attempt to subjugate you. We don’t need it infesting our minds and emotions. Most of what you see in the mainstream media’s news is propaganda designed for you to give up your power to the government and the ideals of the foreign infiltrators.
The word “pornography” comes from the Greek word “porneia” which can be translated as “fornication” or “immorality”. And fear mongering is an unwanted fornication, a form of rape, as it penetrates your mind and alters your emotions usually for no reason at all.
It is immoral to scare people for financial reasons or political gain and control. Refuse to be powerless or intimidated, stand your ground and turn the news off, but not before you write in large letters on your TV…. ”F… you and your little dog too.”
The ghouls fire fear as a black mist or cloud. The status quo is a 3-D worldly manifestation of the inner world ghouls, so they operate in tandem. If you feel fear don’t let it linger. Affirm you are strong and brave, look at celestial pictures, put on celestial music, walk in the park, touch a tree, admire an animal in a field. Call a friend you love. Do stuff to get you out of the fear, as almost all the fear you feel is not yours, it’s not real, it’s fired at you by others–ghouls, humans.
Humanity will only be saved from the imposed narcolepsy of the morons of the fascist state by millions of people resisting. Blow love at the creeps, it really hurts them and crashes them down, it makes them sick because it breaks their codes. They can’t accept love, they think it’s something to do with their willy–tee hee.
Sabotage the Matrix whenever you can, blowing love is one way. I paint Christian crosses with my fingers on walls and lamp posts. I slide the prayer cards in cracks in walls. Make some holy water with prayers and lavender, and sprinkle it in the corners of every room where you live. Put some in a spray bottle for when you are out in the street, you can disinfect areas with it. Spray the stones in graveyards but don’t do it at night, too dangerous.
Don’t let the system fornicate with your heart and mind, whisper silently “We have come to crush you, embrace love or perish”.
I know a vile pedophile that abuses little boys, he’s arrogant and mean and full of spite. He attacks people scaring them, he’s very emotionally violent. I saw a pulse of light oscillating in the hallway of his house, it was 3.03 a.m. It came to strip him of his ghoul protection. That was six months ago, he is dying of cancer now. All his life was a cancer on others. I mention this because all the fear is being taken away.
Things will feel much clearer and lighter soon, very soon. The pulse of light I saw travels round the globe, as each spot on earth reaches 3.03 am, a little more of the divine clean up takes place.
Love & Laughter
Laughter is a form of love and a very powerful medicine.
We find reasons to laugh many times a day. Sometimes I tell my friends funny stories and soon the whole room is filled with the warmth of the fire and the shimmer of shared laughter.
Or, I crack a joke with the barman at the local Dog & Duck, we chuckle and make a circle of light with our feelings which others are drawn into. And lilting laughter brightens the eyes of the curly haired lady in the chemist with the good soul, as I pretend to write myself a prescription for some good stuff with my finger on the counter. We share a jolly moment and she passes the warmth onto the next person that enters with her jovial banter that breathes life force into their being.
A healer friend of mine was recently healing a young child and gave him tools to fight off the night terrors. She told him to laugh and shake a homemade maraca, as the ghouls hate the sound the maraca makes. The healer is clever because the sweet peal of a child’s giggles scares off dark forces. It’s the fear and tears that feed them.
The dark can’t penetrate the levels of light produced by genuinely joyful laughter. It is locked out, the heat spreads like purple and gold fingers of flame that strengthen the soul and awaken the heart.
It is very important that you now start to believe in your divinity if you do not already do so.
Look in the mirror and say to yourself in a whisper “I am the way, the truth and the light.”
No matter what madness is going on in your life right now deep in the eternity of your soul you ARE the way the truth and the light. It is not a truth you will force upon others or even coerce with reasonable argument it is a truth you silently radiate.
Imagine in your mind’s eye the image of your body facing you, as if in a mirror blow love to that person you see there. Let go. Allow that sacred being that is the real you to evolve to become evermore whole. You deserve it.